How Can Men Challenge Unfair Alimony Decisions?

Giving You An Equal Voice

Divorce is hard on everyone in the family; there is no way around that. Emotions and tempers frequently run high, and losing sight of essential matters is often difficult. During such a heated time, having someone who can remain impartial and coolheaded is vital. This is where a dedicated divorce lawyer from Paré & Associates can make a difference for you.

Our lawyers are compassionate, skilled, and knowledgeable of Maryland family law. We understand the nuances of Maryland divorce laws and that there is frequently an unspoken bias men fight against. We give men an equal voice. Call Paré & Associates at 301-962-2492 for your consultation. We’re on your side from day one.

What is Alimony?

Alimony is money that one spouse is ordered to pay to another to maintain an appropriate standard of living. For alimony to be awarded, one spouse must demonstrate a financial need, and the other must have the financial resources to pay.

In Maryland, the courts award three types of alimony:

• Alimony Pendente Lite: Pendente Lite alimony is not a permanent award. It is granted to allow one spouse to maintain the same standard of living while the divorce is pending. The spouse who is the breadwinner is supposed to pay the other spouse.
• Indefinite Alimony: Indefinite Alimony is uncommon because the payments do not end. In case of a long marriage or a situation where one spouse cannot support themselves due to age or health, the judge may order Indefinite Alimony. The judge may also order permanent alimony in cases where one spouse’s income is very high and there is a high difference in the standard of living after the divorce.
• Rehabilitative Alimony: An award of rehabilitative alimony is granted when one spouse needs to pay for schooling to maintain their standard of living while obtaining the training needed to get back on their feet after the marriage. It is temporary and usually lasts for less than ten years.

How Are Alimony Amounts Determined?

Alimony is one of the most contentious parts of a divorce settlement. Often, one party feels they received the short end of the stick. Despite common misperceptions, the man does not always have to pay alimony. Let’s discuss how the court determines the payment should be.

After the divorce is settled, the judge will consider a number of factors when determining whether or not alimony is appropriate. Maryland has a set list of requirements that the judge will look at; however, they are given a wide scope within the law to determine what is fair.

Primarily, one spouse must have a financial need or a significantly smaller estate than the other, have become financially dependent upon the other during the marriage, or require time to finish school or obtain employment through which their source of income can be obtained. The court will also take into consideration such things as child custody arrangements.

Is Marital Fault Considered in Determining Alimony Amounts?

Maryland does take issues such as infidelity, adultery, and abuse into consideration when determining alimony amounts. This means that at-fault divorces can result in the person at fault paying more punitive alimony. Unfortunately, at times, our court system seems to hold an unnatural bias against men in this regard. At Paré & Associates, we are on your side and will protect your rights. Call us today to schedule a consultation. We can help.

How is Child Custody Determined in Maryland?

There was a time in the not-so-distant past when a couple divorced, and it was presumed that the children would automatically stay with their mother because they were better off with her. Rarely were the father’s desires or preferences considered, or was it even questioned if he was the better or more stable parent for the children to live with. Thankfully, those times have changed.

In Maryland, the determining focus of custody arrangements is always maintaining what is in the children’s best interest and creating the most stable and supportive environment for them. At Paré & Associates, we understand the complexities of family. Every family is unique, and everyone should have a voice. We will stand up for your equal rights in custody, visitation, or parental plan modification. No matter what issue is troubling you, our divorce lawyers can put your mind at ease.

When Should I Call a Divorce Lawyer?

We know that divorce is a messy, painful road. Sometimes, amidst the turmoil, one party may try to convince the other that their rights no longer count or are somehow diminished. At Paré & Associates, we don’t accept that. Men’s roles and rights are just as important as women’s in divorce cases and deserve equal representation. We take this responsibility seriously.

Divorce encompasses a range of issues, including the fundamental right to be involved in decisions regarding their children’s well-being. It is essential to recognize the value of a father’s influence in a child’s life and the opportunity to play an active role. Robbing the child of this relationship is a grave injustice to both child and parent. While it is unfortunate that the marriage is ending, it does not mean an end to your rights as a father. Our compassionate and dedicated lawyers understand the complexities of Maryland Family Law.

Divorce can intensify feelings of injustice, and frequently, men are left feeling sidelined. Our divorce lawyers advocate for fair treatment concerning alimony, child custody, visitation, and financial support. Call Paré & Associates at 301-962-2492 for your consultation today. We can help. We’re on your side.