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It is a difficult decision for any parent to lose custody of their children. It can be an even more difficult decision when the mother has lost custody due to her own misconduct.<\/p>\n
Ways a Mother Can Lose Custody<\/h2>\n
In order to understand how this could happen, it\u2019s important that we take the time to examine 6 ways in which a mother might lose custody as a result of her own actions:<\/p>\n
1. Child Abuse<\/h3>\n
Society tends to see women as nurturing, but they can be just as capable of abuse. Despite the commonly held belief that women are less capable of child abuse<\/a> than men, it is often more shocking to learn that a mother has abused her children. Some people assume this type of behavior occurs in only one-parent families and especially among stepfathers or adoptive parents, however, mothers can also be abusive.<\/p>\n The reason mothers lose custody of their children is abuse: physical, emotional, and sexual. Some people assume that women are less likely to be abusers, however, they can commit all types of child abuse which makes it more shocking when a mother abuses her kids because society sees them as nurturing but sometimes this isn\u2019t the case.<\/p>\n Sometimes, a mother isn\u2019t abusive herself but fails to protect her children from abuse by the new partner. If the court becomes aware of this behavior in either case, they are likely to lose custody.<\/p>\n When a father knows his child is being abused by the mother but does nothing about it, he fails to protect their child and this can impact both his custodial rights as well as the mother\u2019s. This means that parents have an obligation to take care of their children.<\/p>\n If a mother neglects her child\u2019s basic needs<\/a>, like health and education, she runs the risk of losing custody. For example: if she leaves them hungry or homeless without any clothes to wear they will likely end up in foster care. Neglect is often intertwined with other issues such as abuse or substance use so one should not be ignored for another.<\/p>\n There is no set standard for a \u201cperfect parent\u201d. Family law judges understand that parenting isn\u2019t perfect, so they are willing to overlook some small mishaps such as being late picking up the children from school or not keeping an appointment. However, if there\u2019s long-term neglect of the child and this threatens their well-being, then you could risk losing your parental rights with family court intervening.<\/p>\n A father may be able to prove the negligence of his children by the mother. Teachers, daycare providers, family members, and others are all potential sources for proof against a negligent parent. If these people notice that there is something wrong with how parents care for their kids but don\u2019t know what exactly it might be or if they would want to testify in court about it on behalf of an estranged father\u2019s custody case, then perhaps direct evidence can help them out!<\/p>\n The courts take addiction to alcohol and drugs<\/a> very seriously, in part because it can have a negative impact on the care that an addict\u2019s children receive. If a mother struggles with addictions to alcohol and other substances she may be put into question as being unfit or unable to take care of her children.<\/p>\n If a mother is discovered to have a dependency on prohibited substances<\/a> or drugs and alcohol, she risks having her custody rights revoked. Children of addicts are more likely to suffer neglect, abuse, and imitate their parents by picking up bad habits as well. In cases where there\u2019s evidence of the mother\u2019s substance use (drug\/alcohol), fathers can present this evidence requesting that his ex-wife be stripped of visitation privileges with his children altogether in order for them not to pick up these unhealthy behaviors themselves.<\/p>\n Despite the fact that a mother can be awarded custody if she agrees to get treatment for her addiction, this isn\u2019t always possible.<\/p>\n A result of giving mothers custody over their children when they are addicted is it may endanger them physically, sexually, or emotionally and put their lives in danger (e.g., drunk driving). However, there are times where mothers might still retain custody after signing an agreement allowing them access to counseling for addictions as well as following through on getting help from these services (if necessary) .<\/p>\n A mother\u2019s custody rights can be lost or reduced should she violate a child custody order<\/a>. When a parent disobeys their scheduled responsibilities, neglects court-ordered visitation times with the father, and interferes with his parental privileges they may face consequences such as losing legal custodial authority of her offspring.<\/p>\n If a shared custody agreement is ordered by the court, and she fails to comply or interferes with her co-parent\u2019s parenting time, then she will be in violation of the court order.<\/p>\n Violations of court orders<\/a> are like any other form of misconduct: the more serious the violation is, it should be treated with a correspondingly stronger punishment. Assume that a mother consistently misses deadlines for dropping off or picking up her child by only several minutes, this technically qualifies as violating an existing custody agreement but will rarely have drastic consequences on their custodial rights since these kinds of minor violations tend to carry minimal punishments in most cases.<\/p>\n A mother who decides that the court\u2019s order providing specific parenting time is a suggestion and not a directive may violate their custody agreement. If this continues to happen, it could lead to losing custody of her child.<\/p>\n A father should keep a detailed log of every time his ex-wife interferes with or violates their court order. Every instance the mother keeps the child from him sabotages visitation plans, and more can be used against her in court to lessen her custody rights as punishment for causing havoc between them.<\/p>\n Fathers should be sure not to let the violations of a court order go without any consequences. The usual reason they do this is that they want to avoid conflict, but mothers will only see that as an opportunity for them to violate it more often and solidify in their minds that it\u2019s just a suggestion instead of something she needs to follow.<\/p>\n Domestic violence is not just something that happens to other people. To protect your children, you should also know the signs of domestic violence<\/a> that are exhibited by mothers. You do not have to put up with abuse and ensure that they stay safe from harm.<\/p>\n If a mother is deemed to be abusive, she can have her custody revoked. This will ensure that the children are not exposed to potentially harmful abuse and also protect them from potential future harm.<\/p>\n Domestic violence is emotional abuse that may turn physical with time. Children are in danger of being exposed to this if they come in contact with or spend significant time, living in the home. Courts are aware of this and will take action for your safety.<\/p>\n Mothers with mental health concerns<\/a> still have the right to custody of their children, however, if a mother\u2019s state endangers her child\/children or compromises them in any way then she can lose that legal privilege.<\/p>\n In these cases, the court has to consider whether or not it is in their children\u2019s best interests if they are left under a mother\u2019s care. The father will have to show that her mental health issues compromise their safety<\/a> and argue that without his presence, their well-being would be better protected. This can sometimes require extensive interviews by psychologists as well as counseling before any final decision being made so this process may take some time but should always remain fair for both parties involved.<\/p>\n Other ways considered by the Law for mothers to lose custody of their children:<\/p>\n2. Child Neglect<\/h3>\n
3. Substance Abuse or Addiction<\/h3>\n
4. Violating a Court Order<\/h3>\n
5. Domestic Violence<\/h3>\n
6. Severe Mental Health Issues<\/h3>\n