If you feel stuck after your divorce and don’t know how to move on, there is probably one simple thing holding you back. In this video I’ll explain the one thing you need to move on from divorce. As a relationship coach who specializes in working with men after divorce, I have seen a lot of people get stuck. Their ex moves on… but they just can’t. The one thing they have in common? Resentment. It may be subconscious, but it’s there.
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I’m Rachael. I help men get through divorce and rebuild who they are to get healthy, get happy and move on with confidence.
That is what this channel is all about. I’ll show you how to handle intense and painful emotions, unravel what went wrong in your marriage (and heal those wounds) and build a clear roadmap for success in future relationships.
What makes me different from other coaches & therapists?
I don’t waste your time with affirmations, communication skills or changing bad habits. I go deep. To the root cause of your problems. I’m not scared of your emotions. And I don’t cling to a single approach or technique. I help you discover what works for you, because above all else, I believe in you.
You are not broken.
And you certainly aren’t the man your ex describes.
You have good intentions. You want stability. You want love and passion. You want to be seen for who you are. You want to stop pretending and still be desired and loved. It’s all possible. I know, I’ve seen it happen.
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DISCLAIMER: I am a Master NLP Practitioner and personal growth mentor. The material in this video represents my understanding and experience and nothing more. This content is not meant to replace professional medical advice, treatment or diagnosis. Always consult your medical provider before making any changes to your treatment.
The one thing you need to move on from divorce is to find forgiveness. That sounds simple… but it isn’t so easy to do. You have to learn how to forgive your ex wife despite all of the awful things she put you through. Despite the things she put your children through or your family through. Finding forgiveness is about releasing resentment so you can finally let your wife go and move on from your divorce.
Why is it so hard to move on from divorce in the first place? It’s hard because there is so much pain and hurt that has taken place. You regret actions you took (or didn’t take). And you resent your ex, often for not giving you another chance once you realized how you needed to change to fix the marriage. You did the work… why did she give up so fast? How could she let go like that?
Let’s talk about how to move on from divorce. The one thing I see holding most people back is resentment. That resentment serves a purpose. It feels good. It feels vindictive. It can be important to your sense of identity and self. If you forgive your ex wife are you condoning her side of the story? Are you agreeing with her?
This is one reason why it is so hard to move on from divorce. The secret to how to move on from your ex wife is to forgive her and let go of the resentment that has been poisoning your life ever since the divorce. Not moving on keeps you trapped. It doesn’t actually hurt her.
To get over your wife leaving you isn’t as simple as saying, “I forgive you”. It requires digging deeper. You have to strive to understand both your wife and yourself as a human being whose actions are based on thoughts and stories they’ve learned to believe over an entire lifetime of experiences. Recognizing and understanding your wife’s behavior is key to feeling compassion for her and moving forward with your life.